Understanding the importance of connection

Although I tend to be a rather solitary person, connection is really vital for me. 

It’s why letters have always been a fabulous outlet for me. Connect on a deep level, but still remain solitary. I’ve been writing letters since I was an early teen. It started with writing to my sister Anne. Every week, we had letters travelling to one another across the country. She lived in British Columbia, I lived in Ontario at the time. Talking on the phone wasn’t an option, the cost of long distance was completely outrageous. So we wrote. Sometimes long letters, sometimes short letters. The importance of it was that we maintained a strong connection to each others day-t0-day lives. 

In the last few years, I have developed an amazing postal correspondence with my friend Simone, who actually doesn’t live that far away, but we don’t get to see each other much. The connection we share is palpable. We love pens, pencils, papers, folding things in unusual ways, Simone being particularly skilled at testing the limits of the postal system! We share not only what’s going on for us, but our creativity in the mix. It is nothing short of fabulous. 

In a world busy with short bursts of quick info, letter writing offers to the chance to slow down, take time and really BE with the person … and then they are able to BE with you, when they make the time to sit with your letter and spend quality time with your words. 

I am hooked on this letter format … as you might be able to tell!

I’ve been playing with folds and ways of creating something unqiue to write in/on, and mail … the BENTO BOX LETTER has been the ticket. Now I have decided to see how many variations I might be able to create. These two are pretty fun. A five piece set in more grounded and earthy colours, and a set that is bright on the inside and out (two different colours, pretty wild!)

BENTO BOX BRIGHTS and BENTO BOX EARTH TONES are limited editions … because at any given time, I have no idea whether I will ever be able to get these papers again. 

See them here: 

Finding ways to expand my world …

Over the past few months, when I have been feeling the need to explore something other that the things I know, I have been taking online workshops.

The first was called Sketchbook Revival, and it was two weeks of different people showing what they do in their sketchbooks. It was inspiring.

The second was an off-shoot of that, one of the artists, Terry Runyan who does these great watercolour blog creatures. I have since bought her new book, Painitng Happiness Creativity with Watercolors, (Leaping Hare Press ©2022)

The images above are my first tries at this endeavour!

The third was a DIY Marketing course that reminded me, in no uncertain terms, that my style of marketing is outside of social media. While those around me are talking about building numbers and such, I am only wanting to connect with individuals and make meaning. So far, I am not feeling like the two go together … at least not for me.

So, I am going to forge my own way of getting out there in the world, that feels just right for me. I will say, it will be rather “old school” … but in times like these, that will be unqiue!

Desktop image for JUNE.

Yes, it’s time to change your desktop again … something new and fresh to start the month.

Just right-click the image and you should be able to save it to your computer and make it your desktop image for the month. If you have any problems, please let me know!

June offers us some fabulous days of celebration: 4th National Cheese Day (US), 12th International Falafal Day, 14th International Bath Day, 18th World Sustainable Gastronomy Day, 21st Indigenous Peoples Day and on the 22nd, World Rainforest Day. 

As always, every day offers something to celebrate, so I hope you will. 

New to the compendiumshop … more ways to send joy through the mail. ORIGINAL Mandalas on black card stock (there are 8 new ones as of this moment, with more coming!)

Me and Squeak

photo by Wendy Morisseau

Not the bear at the door …. but similar!

Life in the country is ever-changing and unfolding … 

In the past couple of weeks, we have experienced living outside the city in new ways. We had a power outage because of high winds, and in the city, that doesn’t effect EVERYTHING, but in the country it does. No power means no water. No flush toilets. Nothing. Our landlords were kind enough to bring us a big bucket of water so that we could flush the toilets, and offered us bottled water to drink. It was the wake up call we needed to be more prepared for these things. We now have stocked up on water to drink, and we have a NEW, large garbage pail in which to collect water from our showers, to use in emergency or to water the plants in the hot season. 

The other BIG, new-to-the-country event was a BEAR. Yes, a real, live, big bear at our back door, last Friday night. Then yesterday it was back, strolling through the yard. Yup, this ain’t the city anymore! 

Add to this, one of the neighbours cats has decided to become the laziest of hunters … it found the hutch of the resident rabbits, and promptly snatched one as it came out … only to return the next day and wait at the opening for another one. No, that’s not going to work for me. So now I watch out for it, and run outside and scare it off immediately. 

Yes, living in the country is a new level of high maintenance!

Wishing you a life full of living!

~sarah

One third through a year of constant change …

I don’t remember a year with as many BIG changes as this one …

We are all feeling the shifts and changes in the world, as well as how they land in our personal sphere, but I don’t remember them all clumping together like this before. Some of the changes seem small in some respects, like having to find a new hairdresser. But, as it turns out, it’s a big thing. Linda has been cutting my hair for the past 17 years. I have seen her approximately every five weeks over that time, so roughly 176 times, for a half an hour or so. That’s about 88 hours we have spent together. There are many of my friends and family that I have not spent as much time with in those years. Many. 

Over the years Linda and I have talked about a lot of things, some silly and some serious. It’s been a wonderful connection, a sort of touchstone of my world. That will be no longer. We will lose touch. She is moving to Maidstone, Saskatchewan, where she bought the local hair salon, and will be in the hub of her family once again, and I am thrilled to bits for her. 

I will cherish this connection as something precious, because it is. It isn’t like any other friendship I have, in fact, it is completely different. 

Why even share this? Because I didn’t want this important relationship to end without recognition of its significance in my life. It was more than just a haircut every five weeks, it was unique connection and sharing. It was special. 

So, if you ever find yourself travelling through Maidstone, Sask, drop in to Making Waves, and tell Linda that Sarah says Hi!

The start of something wonderful …

These are my two latest acquisitions, bought together. Twins in different shapes!

They have now moved beyond their original look, seen here. They have their base coast of satin black, and are looking quite smart already!

It’s been lovely to work on these two, to sink into that place where I feel all that has gone into making them. They have some pretty nice details on them. 

At this moment, I have NO IDEA what the tops might become …. but, as always, I will listen carefully at each step and proceed gently until all is revealed. 

Stay tuned!

You can’t really go wrong reading Pema Chödrön

 I guess I have probably read all of Pema Chödrön’s books, and all have come at exactly the right time and have been perfect.

Her latest, Welcoming the Unwelcome, Wholehearted Living in a Brokenhearted World, (Shambhala ©2020) seems to be the perfect read for THIS moment. It is helping me to get through these turbulent times, reminds me of things I know, but have somehow forgotten to bring forward. Her words are like a good friend, helping you navigate tricky waters. 

From the jacket cover: 
“… Pema Chrödrön offers fresh wisdom, heartfelt refections, and the signature humor and insight that have made hera beloved guide during turbulent times. In an increasingly polarizedworld, Pema offers us tools to find common ground, even when we disagree, so we can buld a strong and broader seanse of community”.

Yes, it is all of this and more!

Desktop image for MAY.

Yes, it’s time to change your desktop again … something new and fresh to start the month.

This image is from my 2022 calendar … one full of unusual days of celebration. These include some rather interesting ones this month … May 6th, World Naked Day, followed immediately on May 7th by World Laughter Day. Hmmmm, one has to wonder about the timing of these two things.

And there are many more, but I do believe my favourite for this month is: May 31st, National Speak in Full Sentences Day. Thank you Simone for alerting me to this important occasion!

If you want to learn the basics about something quickly, check out the kids section in the library! That’s where this little volume came from. Exploring the World of Hummingbirds, by Tracey C. Read, (Firefly Books ©2017). It’s great. I learned so much in 20 minutes of reading it … and now my observations of our herd of hummers is richer with this knowledge. 

Me and Squeak

photo by Wendy Morisseau

I am happy to say, there are many new things in the works over here!

I have some new products to be launched soon and an ever-expanding pool of ideas that are brewing, which feels so wonderful. Each day seems to offer me more insight into where my energies are most needed and welcomed. Each step is inspiring the next.

Wishing you a week filled with brilliant and inspired next steps.

~sarah

Same and yet completely different

My new love … mandalas created on black stock, using coloured pencils and metallic pens.

You may already know that I am a BIG FAN of coloured pencils. I think they are the most under-utilzed art medium there is. They are clean and easy to use. They are portable and much more complex than we are ever led to believe. And I would like to say they are affordable, but alas, good ones are a bit on the expensive side. 

I have several good sets of coloured pencils and each set is very different. Some have a more dense presence to them, and lay down the colour in a smooth and bold way. Others are less dense and lay down more  lightly, which makes them great for layering. Of course each producer of coloured pencils has their own version of colours, so sometimes you have to mix and match, which is always a surprise. 

Lately I have become fascinated with coloured pencil on black stock. It is a completely different colouring/creating experience from creating on white. There are colours that work on black, and those that don’t. There are colours that completely change when put on black, like any of the yellows I have tried, turn to a greenish hue. 

I am in the early days of discovery with all of this, but it is certainly getting me pretty excited! One thing that I love is that they look like a sort of chalk finish, and this is very appealing to me. 

Adjusting to new circumstances … and finding joy.

The settling in to our new home is essentially complete. Aside from a few things still to hang, we are functioning much the way we did in our old place. One change that we made was to drop cable tv from our world, which was a big decision, but one we are happy with, for sure. In place of tv, we will grab videos from the library, or watch online stuff from CBC Gem , BritBox or Knowledge Network. It does cut down on the hours spent watching stuff.

Lately we wanted to watch a series on DVD that we got from the library, so I hooked up the whole tv/stereo thing in anticipation … only to find that our DVD player has died, or at least become unwilling to play with or for us anymore.

The solution was to truck on in to my studio and use my computer for our viewing pleasure. Turns out, this has been a wonderful experience. It’s cozy like a den. It feels very comfy, much more so than the larger livingroom for viewing.

So, I have decided, at least for now, that we don’t need to replace the DVD player … we can do just fine with our new circumstances!

I think we are going to have to name our new place,
The Hummingbird Ranch.

 I don’t know how many we have, but there is a constant coming and going of Anna and Rufous Hummers from the feeder, which has to be replenished frequently. Who knew the smallest bird on the planet could drink so much sugar water?

And why do we feed these little wild things white sugar? Don’t know the answers, but do know they are loving it.

What fabulous little beings they are to watch! I want to know more about them, so I have ordered about 6 books from the library to become more knowledgable about this wee creatures.

I have a book about the about the attributes of animals, as told by some First Nations in North America … and the hummingbird is JOY.

This is inspiring me to think more about joy.

For many years I have had this wonderful piece by Diane Kremmer. The series is called: “If Hummingbirds Wore Helmets” and this particular one is “Egyptian”.  I can certainly say that this piece has brought me joy each and every day …. as well as a definite smile to my heart.

 A small art tool with some very big potential.

I have recently discovered that Avery, the company that makes labels, is branching out in to some new products, and they have caught my attention.

This one is Clear Static Cling Labels. Size: 8.5 x 11″

Essentially, they allow you to make a sign to put up anywhere, and remove without damage. WHAT? This is too cool ….

I am drawn to the clear ones, although they do have white ones as well. But the clear ones means that whatever background you put it on, will show through!! How neat is THAT?

I admit, I have not tried them yet, because I just don’t know what I want to put on them, or where I want to use them, but I do know they are useful.

I love the way industry is now accommodating small business in their products, making it easier for people to customize their look and feel.

I think this product has a lot of potential applications, and look forward to sharing what I finally do with my package of eight sheets!

Me and Squeak

photo by Wendy Morisseau

It’s been a week of opening and reawakening on so many levels. 

It’s been a good week of getting things in motion. I didn’t really understand how much I hadn’t been able to tend to, until I was able to tend to it again.

I am back in flow in a new way. Ideas are percolating and things are getting done.

Today I scooped up two small side tables to refine, and I look forward to what they might become.

There are a few new projects in the works  – early stages for sure, but moving nonetheless!

Wishing you a week of steady forward motion!

~sarah

New uses for common art tools

Our new home with BIG windows presents a rather large problem for flying things.

Over this past weekend I was introduced to the perils of large picture windows in a world of flying things. I heard three bird strikes in two days. No one was fatally injured, but I am sure there were some major headaches going on.

I know there are those sticker things you can put on the windows, in fact there where some there, but they were past their prime, and the birds no longer saw them. Since most of those graphics don’t really appeal to me, I jumped on the internet to see what other people were doing to stop the carnage.

One fellow in the UK offered the suggestion to use a white Posca® paint marker, and draw lines every 3 inches or so, vertically. According to him, this gives the birds the sense of flying near a cobweb, and they are dedicated to avoiding those. As a lover of birds, and a graphic designer, I liked this idea … which a twist of course. Why not make it a bit of fun.

So, I set out to draw the lines and create boxes every so often, which would be the names of birds we are seeing. After completing the first window, I am pretty excited about doing the other one!

Important to know, this is NOT permanent, it can be easily removed, which means, I can change it anytime I feel like it. Oh … the places I will go!!

Note: the misspelling of Steller’s Jay has been corrected!

all things not digital

The first pieces completed in the new studio! Ready for their new homes.

The table, named Mie, came from friend who no longer needed her. She is a lovely size, and as it turns out, underneath the dark stain of a typical Bombay Company piece, the grain of the wood was quite wonderful. I left it natural, with just a light stain to emphasize the beauty of the grain. She has very sweet feet too!

The other piece, also from the Bombay Company, was an antique store find. Of course I see it as a writing box, but apparently it is called a memory box. Beautifully finished inside in black velvet.

Both pieces chose my custom red paint, which I mentioned last time. Yes, I do like this colour on them!

Fewer, Better Things was recently brought to my attention again. I pondered getting it several years ago, and resisted … but then when it resurfaced, I paid attention, and I know why. It’s quite wonderful and it tells me that other people think about, appreciate and respect things the way I do.

Of course, the book itself, being about the quality of things, is beautifully presented and lovely to hold. The paper used inside is soft and generous in your fingers. For me, it completes the experience of what I am reading.

In the chapter Communities of Respect, Adamson says, “People often speak of the ‘tacit knowledge’ of craftsmanship, and for good reason. What happens when a maker, a tool, and a material come together is difficult to grasp from the outside, because it is intuitive and embodied.” YES, exactly!

In The Contact Zone, I loved this description: “… when we ignore our material environment, we are essentially forgetting who we are and where we came from. If we divorce ourselves from our collective memory of a place, we alienate ourselves from our surroundings and from people alike, choosing isolation over group identity.” I think we are all starting to understand this concept more fully afte the past few years of forced islolation.

The subtitle, which is actually set above the title is: The Hidden Wisdom of Objects. All in all, a very mindful read.

Fewer, Better Things
Glenn Adamson
Bloomsbury Publishing
2018

Making your own stickers … any way you want!

I create my own clear stickers for packaging. The reason I like clear is, they don’t “stick out” as much, they blend with their background. 

I first started using them as return address labels, because the white labels just look hidious. 

Now I use them to create a variety of stickers that I can use in a wide range of ways. 

First I start with Avery Full Sheet Clear labels, this allows me to make any size or shape I want, and mix it up if I want to. 

Since this materials works in both laser and inkjet, the fun is available to anyone!

How could you use this technique? And what might you put on your stickers?

Me and Squeak

photo by Wendy Morisseau

I love to find new ways to use things I already have.

Discovering a new use for my white Posca® markers was such fun, as was the clear stickers to enhance my mail. Learning new ways to work with things I have excites and energizes me. It must be why I watch people make things all the time online. Just to see how they go about it inspires me, even if they are working in a material that I never use.

It doesn’t matter what you work with, I think it is more important to know how you work. Are you in flow with your materials and process? It is something I learned from drawing and painting mandalas for so many years. Every single one I do teaches me something about what I am doing and why I am doing it.

May you have a rich and inspired week of discovery!

~sarah

Every day, another level of shift happens

Sometimes life happens in clumps. 

I do not know what the significance is of 17 years, but I know that it seems to mark an end to a bunch of things in my world. 

First there was this big move we just made … after living in the same rental for almost 17 years. Now it’s my hairdresser of 17 years, leaving to start a new life, far, far away. Okay, only in Saskatchewan, but that’s far away to me.

Other big changes are happening around me … two close friends have recently sold their businesses, and are now on adventures to make something new in their worlds.

This is reminding me to be flexible and flowing in my world. To just take things as they come. To celebrate the big and scary shifts that other people are making toward the next phase of their lives, and find ways to support and encourage them.

I don’t think I have experienced this before in my life, watching so many other people make such big changes. Of course I know this time in our humaness is all about big shifts, but when there are so many, it is quite something to take in.

What I do know is that everything in my being celebrates the courage people have to make these big shifts. It’s not easy, it’s really not. However, everyone I know who is doing it knows that even though there may be fear and trepidation, it is the right thing to do. This is the thing about emotions, there are two sides to them, maybe you can’t feel one without the other, I don’t know, but I suspect it might be true.

I am still reading Brené Brown’s book, Atlas of the Heart, Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience, which is teaching me a great deal about emotions … what it is and what it isn’t. It really is reminding me about how lazy we tend to get around the language and understanding of some pretty common words and emotions.

all things not digital

Proof that you can paint almost anything! This bathroom scale was so worn out, even when I found it at the thrift store, but we lived with it because no one ever saw it. Now it sits in full view in the new bathroom, so a remake was very necessary! A little paint and voila, a whole new look! Yay paint!

HOUSEHOLD TIPS, I didn’t know.

There are many new things in our new home, things that we have never had before. Stainless steel appliances, a glasstop stove, and granite countertops. Yes, I know, very shishshee … but my point is one of a more practical nature. Cleaning them. 

Whoever thought any of these surfaces were a great idea of a kitchen, must never do their own cleaning! All of these surfaces are what I would refer to as “high maintenance”.

All of that being said, I can now confirm that buying the specialty cleaning products for these surfaces does make a difference! I am now sure that the previous tenants didn’t use the proper cleaners, because when I did get them and cleaned the surfaces, they suddenly looked brand new!

I know, it’s a small thing, but having a fresh and well maintained home is important to me. I like things to work well and look good … but believe me, not in a fussy way!

Mixing up some red paint. 

I love red paint, but it’s not easy to find just the right shade of red most of the time. Yes, I have this shade in my head, and every time I try to mix it, I get sort of close, or I get something surprising that I like. 

You see, I never learned colour mixing in school, I still have never really learned it. For me, it’s all trial and error. But I have had some great discoveries along the way. Somehow I love not being too attached to outcome … but letting the element of surprise enter the studio and have fun with me!

This week, I mixed up a batch of red metallic paint that ended up being the basis for three pieces in the studio. 

I find it particularly fabulous to layer reds. For some reason it is just a colour that get better and better. 

Me and Squeak

photo by Wendy Morisseau

The studio continues to evolve, and feel like “home”.

Funny how in this move, some of the furniture pieces I used to use a long time ago, have come back to me. There is a long pine side-board table that belonged to my sister Anne. She had it, I had it, she had it, my sister-in-law had it for awhile, I had it again … then Mary Ann had it for most of the past 17 years … and now, it’s the centrepiece of my new studio. It is a hardworking, everyday table, and I am loving it. 

There is also the 1920s writing desk, make of quarter-sawn oak, that I used for so many years. It also found it’s way to be used by Mary Ann for the last several years … now it is back to being my computer desk once again. 

These two pieces are among my favourites, and it is somehow very comforting to be using them again. Like hanging out with old friends everyday. 

Wishing you a wonder and delight-filled week ahead, reconnecting to things that make you feel really good!

~sarah

Finding our way back …

We have finally reached the time to find our way back to being together. 

Yesterday I had a lovely conversation/coffee with my friend Lori, and we got talking about the need to practice our social skills, to get back to being able to socialize like it’s a normal thing. Turns out, it’s going to take some work!

We talked about how our ability to converse is a wee bit rusty … we don’t seem to “do” enough to have something to talk about. I joked that we need to elevate the mundane to a level of interesting … reach in to our storytelling abilities, and have some serious fun with it.

There was a good laugh between us when I made my adventure in disassembling my vacuum cleaner to clean it, an actual story of an accomplishment of the day. As it turns out, you don’t really have to embellish things … the simplest things can take on a whole new dimension if we just encourage them a bit. There is great depth in the mundane! There is also great learning. 

I was also struck by the unexpected stories that we might share, as we emerge into the world of being with others. Discoveries we’ve made along the way. Things that we no longer do or want, simply because we haven’t had it, or as it turns out, missed it in the past two years. There is the musing about what things won’t come back into our lives.

I am now back to seeing things in my immediate environment as being very important, and worthy of talking about. My encounters with the wildlife in our new neighbourhood, the land we live on, and it is quite possible that I will become a bird person. For the first time in my life, I purchased a Hummingbird feeder … wowza …. that’s a blast of colour you want to see every day! And Stellar’s Jays, who’s electric iridescent blue makes takes my breath away … oh yes, and their impressive size too!

Here we are blessed with a plethora of bird species, who all seem so much more interesting when you see them up close, and in quantity. I want to learn and remember their names, and watching their daily habits. These are some of the things in my new daily world that might be interesting conversation starters.

Although I am trying to take pictures of birds, I am not that successful. I feel quite lucky to have captured this Stellar’s Jay grabbing a snack.  I am enjoying the rhythm of the birds, they seem to come at certain times of the day, and that feels very comforting. 

all things not digital

I stumbled across this amazing “bookazine” in the bookstore a little over a month ago, and I am still enjoying it tremendously.

Handværk decoration comes from Denmark, and this one is the English edtion. Each article is about somone doing work by hand. in this issue I have, there are articles on hand made lampshades; textile design; jewelery, mosaics, traditional wallpaper making; a cabinetmaker; costume work; fabric repair, a tattoo artist, and a delightful collection of other things. It is very inspiring!

I am loving it because it reflects my own desire and practice to work with my hands, do things with intention and not rush. It is about getting in touch with all the senses and aspects of your chosen work.

To get a visit inside really old factories making traditional wallpaper is fascinating. I love their intentional decision making about each aspect, from the inks to the paper surface, Ulricehamn’s Wallpaper Factory, (Ulricehmns Tapetfabrik) wants to improve the quality of their work, they look toward collaboration with others, and are dedicated to sustainability in both materials, deposal and in the new people they bring onboard.

In a world where so much is mass manufactured, and faster is seen as better, this bookazine is reminding me that those concepts couldn’t be further from the truth!

haandwaerkbookazine.com

And here, for your desktop pleasure, I offer you some calendar wisdom. You can click on it to upload and then use it as your desktop!

Also … my calendar tells me that April is a very big month of great things to celebrate … it all starts off with being National Poetry Month!

On the 2nd you can celebrate International Pillow Fight Day (please use soft pillows).

Don’t miss International Moment of Laughter Day on the 14th and Erasure Day on the 15th.

We end the month with two of my favourites, on the 28th, World Pay-It-Forward Day, and on the 30th, World Indie Bookstore Day!

What a wonderful month to celebrate!

Me and Squeak

photo by Wendy Morisseau

This week finds me back in full swing in my new studio … four pieces on the go, on the painting side of things … and more ideas for non-paint projects. 

I was reminded this past week how important it is that we are aware of our own energy. I knew mine was low and a bit disconnected for a wee bit too long, but when it came back, suddenly my work started to sell again. I became “visible” in the world, just as if I had walked through a doorway and into another room.

Having experienced this before, it didn’t surprise me, but rather it reminded me how much I need to be connected to a larger picture.

Here’s wishing you a joyous and connected week ahead, filled with pithy conversations about what’s happening in your life!

~sarah